The I’m-Not-On-A-Diet Diet

african american woman sleeping in bed( — Why is dieting so hard? Why does the weight keep coming back (if it ever really left at all)? Simple. Most people don’t approach the concept of dieting the right way.

Think about it – anyone can eat a certain way for a short period of time. But the true key to effective weight loss is changing your lifestyle for more than just a few weeks – you have adopt healthier patterns that you can follow for a lifetime. This is why most of those fad diets don’t work…at least not for long.

Want to lose weight and feel healthier for the rest of your life? Here are some easy-to-adopt lifestyle changes that will help you shed more pound…not just for now, but for tomorrow, too. And the day after that!

Sleep More

Sleeping an extra hour a night could help a person drop 14 pounds in a year, according to a University of Michigan researcher who ran the numbers for a 2,500 calorie per day intake. His scenario shows that when sleep replaces idle activities – and the usual mindless snacking – you can effortlessly cut calories by 6%. Results would vary for each person, but sleep may help in another way, too. There’s evidence that getting too little sleep revs up your appetite, making you uncommonly hungry.

Eat More Veggies

Serve three vegetables with dinner tonight, instead of just one, and you’ll eat more without really trying. Greater variety tricks people into eating more food – and eating more fruits and vegetables is a great way to lose weight. The high fiber and water content fills you up with fewer calories. Cook them without added fat. And season with lemon juice and herbs rather than drowning their goodness in high-fat sauces or dressings.

Enjoy More Soup

Add a broth-based soup to your day and you’ll fill up on fewer calories. Think minestrone, tortilla soup, or Chinese won-ton. Soup’s especially handy at the beginning of a meal because it slows your eating and curbs your appetite. Start with a low-sodium broth or canned soup, add fresh or frozen vegetables and simmer. Beware of creamy soups, which can be high in fat and calories.

Eat More Whole Grains

Whole grains such as brown rice, barley, oats, buckwheat, and whole wheat also belong in your stealthy weight loss strategy. They help fill you up with fewer calories and may improve your cholesterol profile, too. Whole grains are now in many products including waffles, pizza crust, English muffins, pasta, and soft “white” whole-wheat bread.

Pay Attention To Your Clothes

Hang an old favorite dress, skirt, or a smokin’ pair of jeans where you’ll see them every day. This keeps your eyes on the prize. Choose an item that’s just a little too snug, so you reach this reward in a relatively short time. Then pull out last year’s cocktail dress for your next small, attainable goal.

Build a Better Slice of Pizza

Choose vegetable toppings for pizza instead of meat and you’ll shave 100 calories from your meal. Other skinny pizza tricks: go light on the cheese or use reduced-fat cheese and choose a thin, bread-like crust made with just a touch of olive oil.

Cut Back on Sugar

Replace one sugary drink like regular soda with water or a zero-calorie seltzer and you’ll avoid 10 teaspoons of sugar. Add lemon, mint or frozen strawberries for flavor and fun.

The liquid sugar in soda appears to bypass the body’s normal fullness cues. One study compared an extra 450 calories per day from jelly beans vs. soda. The candy eaters unconsciously ate fewer calories overall, but not so the soda drinkers. They gained 2.5 pounds in four weeks.

Use a Tall, Thin Glass

Use a tall, skinny glass instead of a short, wide tumbler to cut liquid calories — and your weight — without dieting. You’ll drink 25-30% less juice, soda, wine, or any other beverage.

How can this work? Brian Wansink, PhD, says visual cues can trick us into consuming more or less. His tests at Cornell University found all kinds of people poured more into a short, wide glass — even experienced bartenders.

Limit Alcohol

When an occasion includes alcohol, follow the first drink with a nonalcoholic, low-calorie beverage like sparkling water instead of moving directly to another cocktail, beer, or glass of wine. Alcohol has more calories per gram (7) than carbohydrates (4) or protein (4). It can also loosen your resolve, leading you to mindlessly inhale chips, nuts, and other foods you’d normally limit.

Go for Green Tea

Drinking green tea may also be a good weight loss strategy. Some studies suggest that it can rev up the body’s calorie-burning engine temporarily, possibly through the action of phytochemicals called catechins. At the very least, you’ll get a refreshing drink without tons of calories.

Do Yoga

Women who do yoga tend to weigh less than others, according to a study in the Journal of the American Dietetic Association. What’s the connection? The yoga regulars reported a more “mindful” approach to eating. For example, they tend to notice the large portions in restaurants but eat only enough to feel full. Researchers think the calm self-awareness developed through yoga may help people resist overeating.

Eat at Home

Eat home-cooked meals at least five days a week to live like a thin person. A Consumer Reports survey found this was a top habit of “successful losers.” Sound daunting? Cooking may be easier than you think. Shortcut foods can make for quick meals, such as pre-chopped lean beef for fajitas, washed lettuce, pre-cut veggies, canned beans, cooked chicken strips, or grilled deli salmon.

Catch the “Eating Pause”

Most people have a natural “eating pause,” when they drop the fork for a couple of minutes. Watch for this moment and don’t take another bite. Clear your plate and enjoy the conversation. This is the quiet signal that you’re full, but not stuffed. Most people miss it.

Chew Strong Mint Gum

Chew sugarless gum with a strong flavor when you’re at risk for a snack attack. Making dinner after work, at a party, watching TV, or surfing the Internet are a few dangerous scenarios for mindless snacking. Gum with a big flavor punch overpowers other foods so they don’t taste good.

Shrink Your Dishes

Chose a 10″ lunch plate instead of a 12″ dinner plate to automatically eat less. Cornell’s Brian Wansink, PhD, found in test after test that people serve more and eat more food with larger dishes. Shrink your plate or bowl to cut out 100-200 calories a day – and 10-20 pounds in a year. In Wansink’s tests, no one felt hungry or even noticed when tricks of the eye shaved 200 calories off their daily intake.

Get Food Portions Right

The top habit of slim people is to stick with modest food portions at every meal, five days a week or more. “Always slim” people do it and successful losers do it, too, according to a Consumer Reports survey. After measuring portions a few times, it can become automatic. Make it easier with small “snack” packs and by keeping serving dishes off the table at meal time.

Try the 80-20 Rule

Americans are conditioned to keep eating until they’re stuffed, but residents of Okinawa eat until they’re 80% full. They even have a name for this naturally slimming habit: hara hachi bu. We can adopt this healthy habit by dishing out 20% less food, according to researcher Brian Wansink, PhD. His studies show most people don’t miss it.

Eat Out Your Way

Restaurant meals are notoriously fattening, so consider these special orders that keep portions under control:

• Split an entrée with a friend.
• Order an appetizer as a meal.
• Choose the child’s plate.
• Get half the meal in a doggie bag before it’s brought to the table.

Complement a smaller entrée with extra salad for the right balance: half the plate filled with veggies.

Reach for the Red Sauce

Choose marinara sauce for pasta instead of Alfredo sauce. The tomato-based sauces tend to have fewer calories and much less fat than cream-based sauces. But remember, portion size still counts. A serving of pasta is one cup or roughly the size of a tennis ball.

Go Meatless More Often

Eating vegetarian meals more often is a slimming habit, according to WebMD’s “recipe doctor,” Elaine Magee, MPH, RD. Vegetarians weigh up to 20% less than meat eaters. While there are several reasons for this, legumes play an important role. Bean burgers, lentil soup, and other tasty legume-based foods are simply packed with fiber. Most Americans get only half of this important nutrient, which fills you up with fewer calories.


When you’ve kicked the soda habit or simply made it through the day without overeating, pat yourself on the back. You’ve moved closer to a slimming lifestyle that helps people lose weight without crazy or complicated diet plans. Phone a friend, get a pedicure, buy new clothes…or go ahead and indulge in a healthy portion of your favorite dessert.

Living With HIV: Healthy Nutrition Habits

A series of HIV/AIDS Awareness ribbons( — A healthy diet won’t prevent or cure HIV, but it can keep you healthier while you live with HIV and are taking drugs to treat it.

Good nutrition can:

  • Keep you healthier despite HIV infection
  • Slow your progress towards AIDS
  • Prevent health problems related to poor nutrition
  • Help you maintain a healthy body weight

As soon as you’re diagnosed with HIV, it’s a good idea to review your diet to see if you are eating as healthily as possible. This is because HIV and HIV treatment can both cause loss of appetite and diarrhea that leads to weight loss and malnutrition over time. Additionally, you may find that stress and depression associated with HIV causes you to lose interest in food.

A Healthy Diet for People With HIV

Here is a basic outline for eating well. Though it can apply to anyone, it’s especially important for those trying to boost their immunity:

  • Eat a starch at every meal. Foods like cereals, potatoes, rice, and bread are starches. Try to include whole instead of refined grains.
  • Incorporate legumes (nuts, beans, peas) in your diet as regularly as possible. These provide a rich source of nutrients.
  • Be sure to eat enough dairy and meat to get the calcium and protein your body needs.
  • Eat a rainbow of different colored fruits and vegetables each day. This will maximize your intake of a variety of natural vitamins and minerals. Boil, steam, or stir fry these foods to preserve their vitamin and mineral content.
  • Drink lots of water.
  • Include small amounts of fats and sweets in your daily diet (but cut out the fried foods and sodas!).
  • Take a multivitamin; look for one that contains B12 and zinc.

When You Are Losing Weight

If you’re starting to lose weight or your appetite, you may have to change your diet somewhat to amp up the nutrients and calories you’re consuming. Although this can be challenging if you feel nauseated or have mouth sores or dry mouth, the following dietary changes can help:

  • Include more meat in your diet, especially those that are easy to digest, such as chicken or fish.
  • Snack more often between meals. Some examples of good snacks are peanut butter sandwiches, yogurt, and fruits.
  • Add more healthy fats — such as avocados, olive oil, nuts, and nut butters to your diet.
  • Use whole dairy products instead of skim.
  • Drink liquids in between meals instead of with meals.

If you lose 13 to 15 pounds without trying or you often feel too sick to eat, it’s time to call your doctor to discuss medications or other techniques that will make it easier to get food down.

Your doctor can determine whether your loss of appetite is HIV-related, a side effect of your HIV treatments, or a symptom of depression. Treatment will vary according to the cause.

You should also try to get regular moderate exercise, which can help stimulate your appetite and provide many other health benefits. One good reason to exercise, for instance, is that it reduces stress and depression, both of which can lead to a reduction in appetite.

Infection and Nutrition

Weight loss often occurs as a result of an opportunistic infection (an infection that usually only affects those with a depressed immune system). Preventing infections and getting treated for infections early will help you maintain your weight and your appetite.

One common source of infection is contaminated food — so make sure you practice food safety in your kitchen by:

  • Cooking meat and eggs thoroughly
  • Not using the same cutting boards or knives for both vegetables and raw meat
  • Washing your hands often, especially after handling raw meat, raw eggs, or unwashed vegetables or fruits
  • Washing fruits and vegetables thoroughly before eating
  • Not keeping leftovers for more than two days and always reheating them at high heat

If you’re not sure how to make your diet healthier, talk to a nutrition counselor. Nutrition education has been shown to help people with HIV eat a healthier diet. This is especially important if you have HIV and are also pregnant.