Easy Ways To Decode His Body Language

When it comes to understanding men, women often miss the mark.  We famously know them for not being the most vocal when it comes to their true feelings, especially in the “getting to know you” stages of a relationship.  Verbal communication may be limited, but it’s those tiny gestures that contain no words that are often unconsciously done that can speak volumes.

Body language reveals a lot about a person’s true feelings and intentions, and it doesn’t take a rocket scientist to decipher the code.  Here are a few body language signs performed by men that will help you make the decision to either invest time or move on to the next to avoid being played.

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Watch for these body language signals during the first encounter or first date.

If he is into you:

  • He will keep strong eye contact.
  • He will smirk at you (meaning smile from the corner of his mouth).
  • His nostrils will fair at some point in the conversation
  • He will tilt his head slightly when he looks at you.
  • His chest will be pointed at you (men point their chest to the most important thing in the room).
  • He will find an excuse to touch you (a simple touch of the arm, or dusting something like an eyelash off of your face).
  • He will become more animated and use his hands during a conversation with you.
  • He will touch his face (when humans are attracted to someone, their skin becomes sensitive).
  • He offers you his hand with the palm up (that means he wants more than just a physical connection).
  • He laughs easily around you (that means he is comfortable around you).


If he’s just there for the ride and could care less:

  • He pays more attention to his phone than he does you.
  • He looks away during conversation with you.
  • His body faces away from you when you are in conversation.
  • He constantly looks at his watch.
  • He taps his foot (signs of nervousness or irritation).
  • He talks more about himself and doesn’t let you get a word in.
  • He crosses his arms (shows he is closed off).
  • He brings up other women during conversation.
  • He constantly brings up his ex (that means he’s not over her).


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Fellas: Formula For A Successful First Date

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It’s Friday night. You hit the town with your boys in anticipation of having a good time and possibly catching the attention of a sexy lady. You walk into your favorite spot ready to get the party started and you immediately spot a woman you just gotta have.

You casually approach her and introduce yourself with a bit of off-the-cuff conversation that makes her smile, and after you share a drink, you exchange numbers to talk outside of the club. The initial confrontation was a success!

A day or so later, you give her a call to have a more in depth conversation and after gathering enough information you both agree on a time and day to venture out on the first date.

Whether you believe it or not, you are being judged from the moment you organize the first date until the end of that rendezvous. There are rules to the game of dating, and it is important to remember that the first date sets the tone for the entire relationship.

Here are a few tips on how to make the first date successful and guarantee more good times in the future.

Cater to her preference.

The first date is all about leaving a good impression that will inspire her to spend more time with you, so it’s all about attending to her needs and wants. Before setting the date, figure out what types of food she likes and types of restaurants she frequents. Also get an idea for the types of activities she may like to do on a first date. Picking a restaurant or an activity of your liking may come off as self-centered and leave her with the idea that you are planning this date for your own selfish reasons. Make sure it’s a place she can dress up and look her best. It gives her the opportunity to impress you and a reason to get fly.

Don’t forget the small details.

Men sometimes view acts of chivalry as corny or “doing the most”, but it’s those little acts of kindness that let a…