Top 5 Sex Mistakes Not To Make In The New Year
… the desire to make the sexual experience better for both of you, the less than skilled partner won’t feel as if he or she is being attacked. Make the commitment to work through the issues with your partner and educate yourself on what can be done to improve while teaching your partner in the process.
BONUS: 6. Holding yourself back
This is an issue for women moreso than men and is a big mistake that robs them of the opportunity to experience a climax. Whatever may be holding you back—whether it be fear of being judged or being uncomfortable with your body— work on questioning those fears and placing them where they need to be (which is outside of the bedroom). Holding yourself back from truly experiencing your partner may cause frustration for both parties, so if image issues or a lack of sexual confidence are reasons behind the repression of sexual expression, talk to a sex therapist, counselor or even a sex coach to gain a fresh perspective on yourself and your sexuality in the new year.
Sexuality is free to explore and experience and in the new year everyone should make a commitment to connect and communicate with their partners in a more open and loving way. Use this new year as a way to put a spark back into your relationship.
Glamazon Tyomi is a freelance writer, model and sex educator with a deeply rooted passion for spreading the message of sex positivity and encouraging the masses to embrace their sexuality. Her website, www.sexperttyomi.com, reaches internationally as a source for advice and information for the sexually active/curious. Follow her on Twitter at @glamazontyomi.