The Comfort Zone
Naturi Naughton has by no means lived an average life. Only 31 years old, she has been in the public’s eye since the age of 15. At that age, she was one-third of the R&B group “3LW”, an acronym for “Three Little Women.” After releasing a few hit singles, the group released their first album – and it went platinum. Although successful, the group disbanded in 2002. Naughton would move on as a solo artist, recording 5 tracks for the “Fame” movie soundtrack. The tracks were critically acclaimed and topped the charts in Finland, Portrugal, and Norway. By 2010, at the age of 26, Naughton announced that she was focusing on an acting career. Fast forward to 2015, she stars in the show “Power”, currently on its third season after two successful seasons.
In an interview with Vibe, Naughton reminds us that all of her success didn’t come easy. “I’m very fortunate to have had a successful career in the music business and now in TV and film, but nothing comes easy. I stay motivated by having family and friends who constantly encourage me and tell me ‘anything is possible’.” Next she exclaims with full confidence, “So this is only the beginning! One day, I will write a script, direct my first film, release a solo album…it’s all scary but exciting territory to conquer!” Judging from her track record, I believe her! But how do we become all that we can be? How do we reach our fullest potential and remain confident on the way to it?
Step outside of your comfort zone.
I know it’s cliché, but it is absolutely essential for progression. “I love to push myself! Stepping outside of my comfort zone is what will make me a better artist,” said Naughton for the Vibe interview. This is how she reaches new levels of success. But stepping outside of our comfort zone is easier said than done. It’s where we feel comfortable. But why?
The comfort zone is only a reflection of your self-image. You create barriers in your mind of how you should function on an everyday basis. The barriers come from what behavior you think is acceptable and what you think you can and can’t do. Much of this is conditioned in your brain at a young age; it’s a type of social conditioning. When on the brink of leaving our comfort zones, we feel nervous. But this a good feeling. What it means is we are improving ourselves, expanding our comfort zones. The more comfortable, the more that can be achieved. Maybe you’re starting a new job. Maybe you’re learning a new language. Maybe you see an attractive stranger. All of these require is to take a step outside of our comfort zone.