It certainly isn’t cheap.
While the West’s reportedly shelled out $3 million dollars for their carrier, depending on fees, healthcare costs (IVF and fertility treatments), insurance, and other factors — experts advise “intended parents” budget anywhere from $98,000 to $140,000. Carriers may also want to keep in mind that they are taking on the risk of any complications which may occur during the pregnancy.
There is help to find the right carrier.
Finding a healthy and trusted person to carry your baby is a major decision. Many people ask close friends or even family. However, if the idea of that seems a little too awkward, there are agencies that will match you with a qualified carrier. These agencies screen for things like medical history and mental wellness. They are highly vetted and the process can be similar to selecting an egg donor. There are approximately 100 surrogacy agencies in the U.S., according to the site WinFertility.
Know your rights.
It’s important to be clear about parental right when using a surrogate, and the laws regarding surrogacy vary from state to state and from country to country. According to WinFertility, couples considering having a child by a gestational surrogate should work with a lawyer experienced in reproductive law. “It’s essential to have a legal contract with the surrogate to protect you both and make sure she agrees to all her responsibilities,” the site states.