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5 Ways to Spice up Your Sex Life

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Long-term relationships can come with many great developments. However, some people find that their intimacy loses a little of its spice over time. That doesn’t mean you can’t get it back, though! With a little creativity and communication, your sex life can be even better than it was before. 

1. Use Your Words

The interesting thing about fulfilling sex is that you can get hot and bothered before you even start touching each other. That’s where spicy messages come in.

Whether you’re going to use text messages, emails, or good old-fashioned letters, using your words can be a very effective way to get things started before the clothes come off.

If you’re not sure what to say, look up a few sexting prompts that you can personalize to get your partner in the mood.

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2. Location, Location, Location

It’s pretty typical to confine your sexy times to the bedroom but that doesn’t have to be the case. Getting things going in other parts of the house can just be the spontaneous boost your sex life needs.

If it’s possible you can even get a room in a hotel so you’re working with a completely different location altogether for a date night.

Are you feeling particularly adventurous? Take the action to a public but very secluded place. The thrill of getting caught wears off quickly if you actually get into trouble.

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3. Try New Positions

When you’ve been together for a while, it’s common to get used to the positions that work. The problem is that even the tried and true ones can get boring. Why not look for new ones to try? Even if you’re not pulling out the entire kama sutra, you can still

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