find other sexy positions that will be exciting for both of you. If you’re not sure where to start, check out variations of the ones you already like. The suggestions aren’t limited to penetrative sex either.
Look for new ways that you can stimulate your partner during foreplay, for example. For people who have physical restrictions, it can help to talk to your doctor about the options.
4. Bring Out The Toys
As skilled as you and your partner may be, sex toys come with a variety of options that can take sex to the next level. Better yet, they give you more time to dedicate to each other without worrying about stamina.
Toys can also open up more doors for what you can try like anal play. In that particular case, it’s easy to start off at a beginner’s level and become more advanced over time. There are a lot of options out there, though so do your research. Don’t be surprised if it takes time to find what works best. At least, you’ll have a lot of fun trying.
5. Indulge In Your Fantasies
While everyone has fantasies, most people don’t discuss them in a relationship. This silence can be influenced by different factors so there’s nothing wrong with doing a little reflection on why you haven’t talked about your fantasies yet.
In the meantime, a little role play can spice things up. If you’ve never given it a try, experts suggest starting with a simple romantic dinner and taking things from there.
It’s not hard to pretend that you’re on a blind date or finally meeting for the first time after talking online. Things can get sexier and more interesting from there.
Of course, one of the factors that can affect your sex life is uncommunicated emotions. Before you start making plans to switch things up in the bedroom, make sure you and your partner are on the same page. Sometimes, talking to a therapist is a good first step to spicing things up in a relationship.