The conversation around what was acceptable in the bedroom; what should be allowed and what shouldn’t, is all across social media and in private conversations, even though most won’t admit it. Many people weighed in on what they wouldn’t do, while others boldly confess that nothing is off limits when it comes to pleasing your partner.
Despite the varying opinions, the consensus across the board was that sexual intimacy should never be boring. Preserving the excitement in the bedroom, especially for married couples, seemed to be most important. Sex can easily become routine, and that’s not good. Maintaining a healthy sexual relationship requires creativity, invention, and spontaneity. Maybe a threesome isn’t your cup of tea, but here are some other ways to keep the steam, in your teacup!
Foreplay!
Everything worth having is better warmed up. We all know what foreplay is, but do we really? Foreplay doesn’t have to start and end in the bedroom and is not only limited to kissing, massaging, or sexual activity that precedes sexual intercourse, but foreplay can start in the morning and last all day.
The purpose of foreplay is to prepare the body for sex. But a body shouldn’t only be prepared sexually. Having great emotional and mental stamina also makes for better sexual chemistry. Send your partner something sweet and sexy through text. This doesn’t have to be a picture, but words can go a long way.
Prepping the imagination for what’s to come is foreplay. Flirting is also considered a form of foreplay. It’s those tender kisses in the morning to those sexy touches throughout the day that cause our sexual nature and desires to erupt. Flirting should never stop in a sexual relationship. It’s all about keeping the mind and emotions set on the sexual intimacy that will come later. Try this. I guarantee you, it works!
Looking the Part!
Sometimes looking the part can go a long way. Ladies, if this means dusting off those stored away lingerie pieces and nighties, then do it. When we feel sexy, we tend to…