Have you ever been out on a date, feeling uneasy, with the only thought to cross your mind being: “When will this be over?”
We get it, and what’s worse is when one or both parties is a bit awkward. Not knowing how to carry a conversation, being unable to grasp a joke, or having unapproachable body language are all things that may leave a less-than-favorable impression.
First dates are never the easiest and can cause a lot of anxiety for both parties. We want to help. We have a list of tips that will help you get through your first couple of dates and a list of questions that are sure to spark quality conversation.
Let’s start with 7 tips to use on a first date.
1. Remember To Have Fun
Worry less about impressing your date and more about having a good time. Having a naturally good time is more likely going to leave a better impression than what you spend. After all, you want your date to get to know the real you.
2. Talk About Something That May Interest Your Date
While your date may be interested in getting to know you, it’s not your show. Try to make your conversation engaging, centering it around things that you know your date might enjoy. Pay attention and you’ll be able to pick up on clues of what this may be.
3. Give Compliments, But Don’t Overdo It
It’s nice to receive compliments, but it gets awkward when the compliment floodgates swing open, which is exactly what we want to avoid. Try to get your point across and flatter your date without making them feel uncomfortable, focusing on things like their smile, or a detail that would normally be missed (earrings, shoes, scent).
4. Choose A Location That Allows For Conversation
While movie dates and concerts are great, these can be saved for later. You want to pick a place that isn’t too noisy so you can actually hear one another. You also want to be free from distractions so the conversation can flow without too many interruptions. Museums, dinner, and Sip ‘N Paints are all good ideas.
5. Don’t Overthink The Date
Of course, you want to put some thought into it. You want to be thoughtful of how you look, smell, and where you take your date, but you don’t want to overthink every small thing to the point where you begin to experience anxiety. As in life, everything is about