the clitoris can give you a less pleasurable orgasm than if your partner touches, caresses, or massages other parts of your genitals before he homes in on that hot spot.
How To Do It: Have your partner make big circles with his fingers that include the shaft, labia, and upper part of the clitoral hood. You can also try having him or her use a fingertip vibrator. The more vocal you are about the speed, intensity, and pressure you prefer, the better the end result will be.
2. The Full Body Orgasm
We all know that “all orgasms are not created equal.” Just because you had one does not always mean that it was good. A full-body orgasm has been known to be felt from your toes and fingertips to the back. It’s the kind of orgasm you want to have and not just need to have because you’re horny.
How To Do It: The key to a full body orgasm is where your energy is focused. Be clear of any issues that may take you away from fully being “in the moment” such as bills, health issues, relationship issues, etc. The best way is to be fully aroused before your partner starts to truly please you.
Notice we say around, not just