… the couples said it changed for the better. The ladies felt wanted and sexier and the men felt more manly. They both benefited from the increased intimacy on ALL levels.
5. Say “yes” to everything for a week
I’ve seen this done successfully once where a person gave their mate a homemade coupon where they would say “yes” to whatever the person wanted that week, and they did it without complaint. It allowed the receiver to get what he/she wanted but also showed them that their mate is truly down for them. It definitely helps when the relationship might be strained due to disagreements.
6. Leave sexy hints
Talk to your mate about what turns him/her on and then leave little notes around the house so they can find memories or hints of those things. For example, I love lace, I think it’s really sexy, so then my wife would put lace panties around the house with a little note attached saying “I can’t want for you to take these off of me.” Wooo! That got me hot! Use your imagination.
Now, six tips is nice, but we want to keep the love going, so we added an extra three tips to give you:
7. Plan and create a lunchtime quickie (find a hotel nearby the job, book it and get it on!)
8. Do something adventurous (and not we’re not talking about just going to a new restaurant)
9. Be their fantasy massage therapist (everyone loves a great massage, so get some oil, set up the room like a massage office and rub that body down!)
All in all, these suggestions all incorporate one thing: communication. If you don’t communicate with your mate, nothing will work.