reach orgasm. Are you comfortable incorporating your vibrator into partnered sex? Shift to other forms of masturbation as well. Make sure you learn your body enough that you can reach orgasm in several ways, not just with a vibrator.
Slow Down
This is probably something you’ve told an old lover or ex (or at least thought about it). Try taking your time instead of just going for a quick orgasm. Use your vibrator differently: Hold it lightly against your clitoris. Move it around to other areas of your vulva. Cover your vibrator with a sheet, or use it over your underwear to minimize the intensity. Use it on the lowest possible setting. Try teasing yourself with your vibrator, instead of going straight for an orgasm.
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Go Outside “The Box” (pun intended)
There’s no doubt that vibrators increase your sexual desire, so instead of climaxing, take that desire and go out, and flirt with a newfound love (if you’re single) or with your mate in a new way. You’ll be surprised just how much your sexual energy can be felt if you channel it differently. Think about the bakery concept: walking past a bakery you smell the sweet aroma of pies, cakes, cookies, etc, thus making you hungry. Sexual desire can act in the same way, using the vibrator to get your juices flowing and then allowing your mate to “take you there”.
Happy orgasm!
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