Along with clear and consistent communication, parents must agree to do what’s in the best interest of the child which may mean putting aside differences to make it work. “Bickering parents can contribute to a child’s frustration, depression and anxiety,” says Dr. Griffin. “This can result in low academic performance, lack of social skills and/or behavioral challenges. Put your adult differences aside and make the child the number one priority.”
The family dynamic of a child should be one of love, unity and support. By working together and being a system of support for the child parents are setting a positive example of how differences can be absolved with a little bit of teamwork. Dr. Griffin advises separated parents to combine forces and know how to be good examples for their children.
“When it comes to your child’s education, join forces and present a united front,” Dr. Griffin says. “It’s already difficult and complicated at home, the last thing your child needs is for it to be difficult and complicated at school.”
Dr. Griffin adds, “Working together as a team demonstrates to the school system, principal, teachers, other staff and faculty that you care more about the success of your child than your personal differences. In fact, the only reason the school should have any clue that you’re not together is because you have different addresses! Keep your personal adult mess away from your child’s school. Because the last thing you want is to have child protective services and the schools involved in a long drawn out custody dispute.”
For more information about how to make a co-parenting situation work or to talk to Dr. TaMara Griffin directly log on to www.drtamaragriffin.com.
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