talking about long-term commitment and kids on the first date, it’s not unreasonable to let your date know that you aren’t into having sex on the first date or that companionship is more important to you than a physical relationship, if that’s the case.
Shut down anyone who sends you a picture of their genitals – If someone thinks so little of you to send you a penis pic or a video exposing their most intimate moments, they are, in a sense, letting you know that nothing is off limits and they want to hook up. A lack of response or simply letting them know that you’re not down for that will let them know right away that you may not be looking for the same things. People that send these types of unsolicited images online tend to send these types of texts to multiple people and are just waiting for the one that bites. It doesn’t have to be you.
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If you’re updating your profile on a dating website be honest about what you are and aren’t looking for in a relationship. Most people will pretty much rule themselves out if they feel they don’t meet your expectations, meaning you’ll never hear from them. If you’re clear and upfront at the beginning, you’re more likely to not have to explain your intentions later on.
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Glamazon Tyomi is a freelance writer, model and sex educator with a deeply rooted passion for spreading the message of sex positivity and encouraging the masses to embrace their sexuality. Her website, www.sexperttyomi.com, reaches internationally as a source for advice and information for the sexually active/curious. Follow her on Twitter at @glamazontyomi and the all-new “Glamazon Tyomi’s Sex Academy” radio show here.