… “You know what, it really is — it’s telling the person when they do something great, (also) being able to have the courage to say, “You know what, I didn’t really like that. That wasn’t cool. Let’s discuss it. What did I do to bring that out in you?” I think communication is absolutely important. There’s no way I could have lasted in 14 years of marriage without communication — also, growing. When you’re in a relationship you need to grow. When you meet someone at a certain age, as you grow you learn different things. It’s whether that person is willing to grow in the same direction as you and grow with you.”
