3. “Come In” Cobra
This take on the classic cowgirl gives you much needed clit access as well as face-to-face intimacy. Get on top of your partner. Once he or she is inside of you, swing your legs back so that you’re lying flat against your partner.
Your bodies should be perfectly aligned. Rest on your forearms on his or her chest for extra lift. You’re essentially in a baby cobra position, only with your partner (or toy) inside of you.
Keep in mind this position is not always comfortable for everyone. Do what feels good for you.
4. Lotus
This position is super intimate and sexy, which is probably why it is the most famous Tantric sex position of all. Known in Tantra at Yab Yum, the Lotus is amazing for female orgasm. It gets you up close and personal for deep, passionate kissing and right against your partner’s pubic bone for carefree clitoral stimulation.
Have your partner sit on the bed or couch and straddle him or her, face-to-face. Rock back and forth. You’ll get it (wink, wink).
Here are a few more tips that you may want to consider:
Finally, you and your partner should take time out to discuss sexual expectations (e.g., frequency, protection from unplanned pregnancy and STIs, positions, etc.) for yourself and your relationship. Remember that your best sexual organ is your brain and that the dirty four-letter word that most couples fail to address with regards to sex is…TALK.
Dr. James Wadley is an Associate Professor and Director of the Master of Human Services Program at Lincoln University. He’s a licensed professional counselor and marriage, family, and sexuality therapist in Pennsylvania and New Jersey.