…significant so, the friends and the man I have now are off limits to the public,” Karrine states. “Instead of writing about my life, I choose to simply live my life and all of that belongs to me, now. But there was just one story left, and that is what I am sharing with my readers this time around.”
Power Shifts In The Bedroom
Sex isn’t just about one partner assuming the position of the dominant. It is a mix of experimenting with power roles and having fun along the way. Unfortunately, in the Black community many men have an issue with relinquishing the reins of sexual control, and likewise, many women have a problem with embracing the role of initiating and dominating the sexual experience. Karrine has her take on why this issue persists and where women can find the answers to this issue.
“Men who don’t control much in their lives are prone to try to control women and sex,” Karrine explains. “It’s the only thing to which they really have access. Adversely, we often find that men who control many aspects and people in their lives, prefer to be dominated during sex. It’s a security issue. The more insecure the man, the more he will try to control the woman and all sources of her power, including sex. I discuss sex as a power source in my second book, The Vixen Manual: How to Find, Seduce, and Keep the Man You Want.”
Prostate Stimulation 101
Just a few weeks ago, Karrine opened up about her experiences with anal play and ‘prostate milking,’ and before she could move on to the next social media post, the urban community unleashed a slut shaming attack per usual. As always, Steffans took the heat in stride remaining unbothered by the antics of critics who are restricted from seeing the benefits of prostate stimulation, and in the process, chose to educate the masses about the health improvements prostate milking can have for men. Her knowledge on this topic is enlightening.
Prostate massage is part of the digital rectal examination (DRE) routinely given to men by urologists in order to look for nodules of prostate cancer and to obtain an expressed prostatic secretion (EPS) specimen for microscopy and microbiological culture to screen for prostatitis.
“What we know for sure is that the prostate gland is an erogenous zone for men and it’s often referred to as their G-Spot,” explains Steffans. “When manipulated, or ‘milked,’ it releases the excess semen that often causes discomfort in the gland. Prostate milking is beneficial to men and is even said to help men minimize the chances of developing prostate cancer.
She adds, “It is a procedure that is also performed by medical professionals and should be carefully approached by men and their partners. That being said, a man who is not open to this sort of manipulation in his personal life will most likely have to be open to the idea of having his prostate examined and maybe even milked by a medical professional around the age of 40, if not before. So, now would be a good time to wrap their minds around the idea.”
Vindicated will be available June 2, 2015, but is currently available for pre-sale on Amazon.com. Tickets for her book tour and other events are available on the events page of her website karrineandco.com.
Glamazon Tyomi is a freelance writer, model and sex educator with a deeply rooted passion for spreading the message of sex positivity and encouraging the masses to embrace their sexuality. Her website, www.sexperttyomi.com, reaches internationally as a source for advice and information for the sexually active/curious. Follow her on Twitter at @glamazontyomi.