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On Entertainment Tonight, she explained that she had actually drawn up the papers first, but she got pregnant she wanted to give the marriage another try.
“Early on in my marriage when I was faced with this [infidelity by him], I was ready to leave. It’s not OK,” Pulliam says. “In the process, I found out I was pregnant. And I had to take another hard look and decide if I wanted to try to work through this and forgive him for the sake of the child. Like, I had divorce papers ready. I presented it to him. … Once I was pregnant I did decide to give him that one last chance. The part that hurt me the most when he filed for divorce was that he had asked me to give him another chance, and I was willing to do that and forgive him, for our family,” she claims.
After all was said and done, Ed admitted that it was indeed his child after a paternity test, he wants to delay child support payments and is still fighting for custody.
“There’s nothing to say at this point,” she explains. “… The stress isn’t healthy. And my only priority is her.”
“Honestly, at the end of the day, it starts from the inside so you need consistency,” admits Pulliam. “You cannot expect miracles overnight; it’s important to commit and give things time. As black women, we are not homogeneous, so you must create a routine based on your individual needs. There are so many vitamins and health products out there. Go to a really good nutritionist or find natural remedies to help maintain your health.”
And she’s right. The stress is NOT healthy for the baby, during and after pregnancy. In fact, when you’re stressed, your body goes into…