… a man to pull off her panties and sit her on the kitchen counter.
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What can her body language tell you?
Eboni: The biggest lesson you can ever learn when it comes to oral sex is to follow her lead. A woman will let you know where she wants you and how she wants it. If she is shifting her pelvis, more than likely it is to get into a more comfortable and pleasurable position. As she shifts, hold your position and tempo and let her find the sweet spot. Pay attention to breathing and tension in her abdomen. As the heart rate increases due to excitement, breathing becomes shallow and stomachs tense up. Lastly, if she pulls away it’s because something hurts or is too intense. Allow her space to readjust and then… get back to it.
Are there any accessories that add to the pleasure of oral sex?
Eboni: Fingers are the best addition to oral sex. Whether there is a finger or two inside or rubbing the clitoris while you focus your tongue elsewhere, your hands should be involved in the act. There is always an option to use a small vibrator, such as a Bullet, to stimulate the area. This can result in a much quicker orgasm. For couples that trust each other, restraining the hands can add some spice to the act.
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