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Mom Uses Music To Calm Kids During Shooting

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Shots are being fired. People are dead and steadily dying around you.  As a mother with your children with you, what do you do? That’s what one mom had to find out. The panicked mother (identified by NBC as Faith Wambua-Luedeling) caught in the chaos, knew she had to keep her young children still and quiet if they wanted a chance to survive. So, even as gunshots rang the air, she began to sing. She soothed her children as they “played dead” for hours–nearly five hours to be exact–while hiding from the militant gunmen who had laid siege to the Kenyan mall they were in.

The family’s terror began when a group of gunmen charged into Nairobi’s Westgate Mall last September, opening fire on unsuspecting shoppers. Faith, who had been shopping with her young son and daughter, grabbed the children and hurried to a corner, where they lay face down on the ground and tried not to move. “We were just lying there — there would be shooting going on, then it would stop,” she told NBC News last year of the terrifying experience. “There were times I could hear the bullet casing dropping on the floor near us. We could smell the gunpowder and we would really be scared.”

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In an interview on NPR, Faith revealed her and her kids hid for five hours before they managed to escape the mall. “The music that plays in the shopping mall — just kind of this tranquil music — was still playing throughout this whole thing, so amidst the gunfire and all the action that was happening, you had this kind of mall music that played throughout the entire attack,” award-winning photographer Tyler Hicks (who took the stunning photo) said. “[The mom] actually was singing along with those songs to her children to keep them calm and quiet — especially the young boy who she said rarely can sit still for five minutes and she had to keep him calm and quiet for five hours.”

Music has long been used to help ease stress and calm the nerves. We see the coercive power of music if it is of excessive volume, or has an overwhelming beat, at rock concerts where thousands of people may be taken over, engulfed or entranced by the music. Even now, there is a whole genre of modern dance music called ‘Trance,’ designed to have such an effect.

 

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By Derrick Lane | Published April 28, 2014

April 28, 2014 by Dr. P. Gould

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