having issues with their family and don’t really have a relationship with them, ask more questions to explore this topic a bit more. If you’ve already met their closest friends, are they people you can actually see yourself hanging out or getting along with?
Also, keep in mind, the people we spend the most time with says a lot about who we are, so if you notice they hang out with a specific type of crowd you’re not too impressed with, that may be something you want to think about. Also, how have their past relationships ended? Lastly, how is their relationship with money?
This question may sound a little funny but, asking how they are with their finances can provide a major insight into how responsible they are.
HEALTH
Plain and simple, how is their health? Do they have any diseases? How do you both feel about alcohol or marijuana use? If you’re okay with drinking socially and find that marijuana calms you at the end of a stressful day, then it won’t be a deal-breaker if you find out your potential partner feels similarly as well.
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POLITICS
Politics have always been an onerous topic, so it’s no surprise that it’s capable of ending a relationship, especially in today’s political climate.
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RELIGION/SPIRITUALITY
How important is spirituality to you? If you consider it to be a pretty big deal, then it may be a dealbreaker if you find out this person doesn’t associate themselves with a religion or don’t consider themselves a spiritual person. It’s okay to be open to new experiences but if you feel like their beliefs don’t align with yours, you’ll want to make a decision sooner rather than later.
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GOALS
Everyone should have some type of goals established, whether it’s to move to the other side of the world or to have a family one day. If you’re making strides to open your own business, are they supportive of that or prefer to date someone that’s amenable to being a stay-at-home spouse? Discussing goals with each other allows you to see more of what you have in common as well as if there’s a future for both of you together.
Of course, there are many other topics to explore later in the relationship, but discussing these topics while getting to know someone will better prepare you both for your next phase together.
Shawna Davis is a wellness journalist and the founder and creator of the wellness lifestyle blog, Froing and Flowing. Beyond the blog, she is a certified yoga instructor, wife, dog mama and is a natural hair enthusiast that’s passionate about health, wellness, and natural beauty. You can follow her on Instagram @itsshawnadavis.
