… can forgive infidelity and move on, many marriages end in divorce. The other side is that emotional and sexually they are no longer thrilled by the newness.
4. Sex.
Let’s face facts… when the children come the libido changes. It is what it is. Many couple change in what they desire of someone and figure they just will get the same meal and or fix the same meal up all the time. Sex is meant to be the sharing of the two becoming one, not the chore for the other! It’s not just a youth issue. If we could more openly discuss the times where our sex drives lull we could survive more valleys.
5. Growing apart & Excluding Your Support System
Marriage is a partnership and sometimes a cause of marriage failure is simply that a couple grows apart. Often this happens when one spouse matures and decides that he/she no longer shares the same visions for a future. Marriage takes a lot of hard work, sacrifice and compromise. It also takes the support of the village. If you are marrying someone who does not come from the same background socially or economically that you do you are yoking yourself unfairly. Neither one of you will be able to grow to your full potential. If you believe that it is just you and your partner against the world you are deluded, Time and time again marriage fail when spouse are not allowed to reform interests, friendships and social ties that they had before you. Be wary of anyone who has no friends. Be leery of someone who wants to dress you all the time. The more similar people are in their values, backgrounds and life goals, the more likely they are to have a successful marriage. Opposites may attract but they may not live together harmoniously as married couples