It never fails. Two weeks before Christmas one of your closest friends is going to ask you, “What are you doing for New Year’s Eve?” And I’m sure your reply will be, “I don’t know.” Let’s be honest, few people makes plans that early for NYE. Most people start toying with the idea of New Year’s Eve immediately after Christmas. Well, I’m here to help you out.
I’m at the age where I would rather stay in and have a lovely seafood meal or go to a fabulous party that I know I will remember. I am a party planner and event designer. If I am not working a party for a client I usually opt to stay in. But staying in doesn’t have to mean watching the ball drop in your pjs at midnight. Why not invite some friends over and have a lavish party at your house? How about a girls’ night in?
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A girls’ night in is just what it is called. It’s a girlfriend party. You and any number of your closest girlfriends have made a commitment to stay in, catch up and have some fun. I am going to give you six tips on how to pull this off.
1. Create the perfect guest list.
The guest list is so important. It is imperative that you invite the perfect guests in order to pull off a memorable party. God knows if you invite one or two wrong guests it can totally change the dynamic of the entire night. You want peaceful guests. If a deep discussion breaks out, you want people that are able to agree or disagree peacefully. This is the last day of the year and you will be toasting in the new year with these people, so make sure you are in good company. So when you pick your guests, think about various scenarios and how your company will interact with each other.
2. Serve good food.
There is nothing like walking into a party with good food. That’s like icing on the cake. The drinks could be subpar. The music may not be your cup of tea. But if the food is good, you’ve won for the night. Trust me, because I am a foodie. I can remember what I ate last Tuesday, so you better believe I can remember if the food was good at an event or not! So let’s be honest, it is all about the “Scooby” snacks and drinks. If you decide to have a cocktail party, which is easier, go heavy on the appetizers. Have something for everyone – the vegetarian, pescatarian, carnivore, and the person with the ridiculous sweet tooth. This makes it easy on you, too. Your goal is to enjoy your guests, not to be stuck in a hot kitchen the whole time. Cook some things and order the rest, but make sure you have enough food. Remember the ladies will need something to soak up that liquor.
Speaking of liquor…3. Libations, baby!
When was the last time you had a beautiful cocktail? That’s right, I said beautiful. A drink that is so good it’s beautiful. That is what you want for a New Year’s Party. Go online and research cocktail recipes. Serve a drink that you know your guests may have never had, or put a different spin on a classic. Change the game. If you or your guests are not really into hard liquors and prefer wine, get good quality wine. I am not saying that you have to spend $50 each on a bottle of wine, but do not get the cheapest wine to serve your guests. NO not on this night. And if you are a guest going to a B.Y.O.W party, don’t bring cheap wine. It’s nasty and embarrassing. You can get decent wine as low as $8 a bottle. Have a variety for everyone, from dry to sweet. Please don’t just serve sweet wines because that’s what you like. Oh, don’t forget the bubbly! Champagne, Prosecco, or Cava on ice will do.
4. Bring out your good stuff.
I am all about bringing out the good china for any occasion and New Year’s Eve is one of them. Whether you decide to have a sit down dinner or a cocktail party, bring out your good china. That means real dinnerware and glassware. I cannot stress to you how it changes the dynamic of your party. A white plate, a platter, or a real wine or hi-ball glass will make your guests feel special. I’m sure you are saying, “That’s nice but I don’t want to wash all those dishes.” (In my Morpheus voice) What if I told you, you could rent all your dinnerware and glassware, and you won’t have to wash a thing? Just load the items back in the crate for pick up. Rentals are reasonably priced as well. Find the nearest rental company in your area. So for NYE, ditch the plastic or paper plates and the red cups. Trust me, I know magic can happen in a red cup, but not on New Year’s Eve.
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5. Ambiance
Now here is where you tie everything together. Make the night visually special. Pick a color that resonates with you and create a theme around the night. Have different stations like food, dessert and beverage around the dining and kitchen area. Make mini menu cards for each food item. Have recipe cards so guests can make their own special cocktail. The ideas are endless. Let them flow and have fun. Keep all televisions off, however, YouTube has a wonderful video of a fireplace with crackling fire,which creates a cozy environment for your guests.
6. Music
It is not a party if there is no music, and every party deserves good music. The music drives what type of party you will have so if you want people to dance all night long then play as much upbeat music as you can. Trust me, at every girlfriend party it always ends with a Soul Train line. I suggest downloading Spotify to create your perfect mix and also add an artist that you know your guests may not be familiar with. It creates a conversation piece that can get really interesting as the night progresses.
Happy New Year!