We’ve all heard of “The Honey-Do List”, that combination of chores, projects, and errands a sista might give her man to accomplish on the ... Read More
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My Childhood Shadowed by Violence
This as-told-to essay is based on a conversation with BDO staff member Tasha Ho-Sang. My earliest memories of my home environment start at ... Read More
5 Sex Questions To Ask Before Saying “I Do”
We are well into wedding season and the pomp and circumstance of matrimony increases in style and flair with each social media post of this ... Read More
How Denzel Met Pauletta: Their 40+-Year-Old Love Story
As audiences gather to view the highly anticipated sequel to the blockbuster hit, Gladiator II, which now stars Hollywood A-List Denzel ... Read More
15 Mental Health Questions You Should Ask Anyone You’re Dating
Dating is hard enough as it is. Now, pile on mental health issues stemming from his or her past and its a recipe for disaster. So instead of ... Read More
From Besties to Frenemies: The Truth About Outgrowing Your Childhood Friends
“Some people are in your life for a season. Some people are in your life for a reason.” This saying speaks a truth that we’ve all ... Read More
Nia Long: Secret to Sex in 3 Simple Words
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7 Early Signs That He/She is Not The One
Sometimes, in the fog of excitement, our vision is impaired, and this hinders our ability to see tell-tale signs and red flags. Even if ... Read More
The 5 Types Of Fights Brothas Fear
Let's get this straight: men--real men--only want to fight for something they really want or what they believe in. So, the only fights guys ... Read More
14 Ways That Will Improve Your Sex Life Today!
You probably already know that one of the key aspects of any healthy relationship, and even just general happiness, is a fulfilling sex ... Read More
Signs Black MEN Should Look For On The First Date
First dates can be pretty stressful. On his side, there may be high expectations of doing everything perfectly to secure the affections of a ... Read More
Top 6 Reasons Doctors Say Sleep Naked is Healthy
Sleeping is one of my favorite activities and not just because of its rejuvenating qualities or its ability to give me a break from reality. ... Read More