First steps, potty training, and first words are milestones that parents can’t wait to share on social media or with family and friends. As a parent of a child with autism, I understand the apprehension of sharing milestones with others who are accustomed to having lengthy conversations with their children.
Telling someone that your four-year-old said, “Mommy” for the first time can be met with an underwhelming response or looks of confusion. However, just because your autistic child may not be achieving milestones at the rate of neurotypical children doesn’t mean that you shouldn’t celebrate them!
It’s Autism Awareness Month so, let’s celebrate our amazing children in these 5 special ways!
Do Something Special.
Celebrate your child by rewarding them in a way that speaks to them. Whether is extra time outside, decorating cupcakes together, or listening to that song they love on repeat, your autistic child deserves to know that you are excited about their progress!
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Many places, like Sky Zone and Chuck E. Cheese, have special times for kids with autism to enjoy games and activities without being overstimulated by lights and sounds. Whatever you choose to do, make sure it’s something that your child will enjoy, even it if looks different than what other kids would enjoy.
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Join a Community.
Joining a group can seem like additional work for the parent of an autistic child. However, being in the presence of other parents who have autistic children will create a comfortable environment to celebrate your child’s accomplishments.
Without hesitancy, you can share that your child has fewer meltdowns, is trying new foods with different textures, or made a friend at school.
These parents “get it” and will not only cheer for your child, but they will cheer for you! Sometimes knowing that you are not alone on this journey gives you the boost you need to continue being an amazing parent.
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There are groups that may be within your local community, national organizations, or social media groups, that are filled with other parents who are eager to celebrate their autistic children, too.
Invite Family and Friends to Join The Celebration!
Educating your family and friends on autism is a great start, but celebrate your child by teaching the things specific to your child. Those things can include likes, dislikes, triggers, and the way they respond to different environments.
If your child doesn’t like bright lights or loud noises, let your loved ones know. Talk to your other children about the needs of their autistic siblings and include them when you’re celebrating milestones.
Say Cheese!
When you’re having a hard day, pictures and videos are a great way to look back to reflect back on the progress that you and your child have made.
You can also share images and recordings amongst group members, family, teachers, and therapists to celebrate your child’s successes. As your child grows older, sharing these moments may encourage them to conquer new milestones.
Donate and Advocate!
Celebrate your autistic child by supporting a cause that improves the lives of children and individuals with autism. There are many non-profit organizations that promote the acceptance and inclusion of individuals with autism through education and empowering individuals with autism. You can donate by volunteering, raising funds, or encouraging others to donate.
Remember, your child is unique and is making progress. That’s a cause for celebration! Don’t make the mistake of comparing your child to others and miss out on celebrating those momentous milestones.
Be sure to celebrate the wonderful work you do as a parent as well! You were called to lead, guide, and nurture your amazing child through the journey of autism, and for that, you rock! Let’s continue to celebrate this month and the many milestones that lie ahead.
