a feeling, one that can be experienced even by people who are regularly in contact with others,” explains senior author John Bellettiere, assistant professor of epidemiology at the Wertheim School of Public Health.
“We do not yet know whether the increased risk of cardiovascular disease is due to acute exposure to social isolation and loneliness, or whether prolonged exposure accumulated over a lifetime is the culprit. Further studies are needed to better understand that,” Bellettiere said in the release.
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Ways to cope with loneliness
One-fourth of adults 65 and older report social isolation, while one-third of adults 45 or older report being lonely. Previous research shows that social isolation is more common among women than men.
“Measures of social isolation and loneliness — even with brief questions as was done in our study — should be incorporated into standard care,” Golaszewski shares.
“We monitor our patients’ blood pressure, weight and temperature, and it might also be beneficial to capture the social needs that individuals may be lacking to better understand cardiovascular risk and develop solutions,” she adds.
If you are dealing with social isolation and loneliness, these tips may help you cope:
1. Create a list of activities you can do by yourself.
“We can use [loneliness] as an opportunity to get to know ourselves better,” Kate Balestrieri, a licensed psychologist in Los Angeles, California shares. Take yourself to dinner, a movie, the park, a museum, a place you’ve always wanted to go. Many people look to relationships to regulate their emotions and feeling lonely can be an opportunity to learn to do that for yourself.”
2. Find a way to move your body.
“What you’re trying to do is engage your body and engage your mind out of the loneliness,” Lisa Bahar, a licensed marriage and family therapist in Newport Beach, California explains. You can try surfing, playing soccer, sailing, walking barefoot in sand or grass, etc. All of these activities can help you pay attention to the sensations in your body.
3. Try therapy.
If you are feeling lonely, having a therapist to talk to can help. “Sometimes it’s just about somebody listening to you,” Bahar says. “And that’s very important.”
4. Remember loneliness doesn’t have to be permanent.
Last, but certainly not least, remember that you are in charge of your future. “You are the architect of your future,” Balestrieri says. “You get to go out and make new bonds.”