in people that were only meant to be a “hook up.” Clearly defining the terms up front will ensure that both parties are on the same page. To stay on the same page, check in and don’t hesitate to redefine your terms; this is critical to taking things to the next level.
Sure it can be a difficult conversation, but its necessary to potentially secure the bae. Having the courage to engage in difficult conversations about this topic, and many more can greatly improve the quality of your life overall.
2. Realize the conversation may not always have the perfect ending.
Yikes!!! So I’m sure you’re wondering why I just motivated you to have these conversations in hopes of getting your fairytale ending and now I’m telling you it won’t happen! Total buzz kill right? Well, rejection is a part of life and by engaging in the conversation and defining your terms your Netflix and Chill partner may not always feel the same way. — And THAT’s a very real place to be.
When plotting operation #SecureTheSpouse2018 you have to be prepared for the very real reality that “bae” might not be on that same page…and that’s okay! Vulnerability is the practice of putting all of our cards on the table with no real guarantee that the hand we’ve been dealt will win the big game. It’s scary but can prove to be totally worth it. What I’m saying is: You can’t be attached to the end result because this could go either way.
3. Be prepared for what the switch from casual to deliberate really means
Many times we engage in and so openly accept a “Netflix and Chill” type of arrangement because of its convenience and the fact that it enables us to be something most won’t admit: selfish. I can attest to this myself. As a busy young professional attempting