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Home / Lifestyle / Relationships / 3 Real Sex Positions For More Intimacy

3 Real Sex Positions For More Intimacy

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Are you looking for real sex positions to spice up your day?

There are hundreds of sex positions that one can choose from. Each one provides a different type of stimulation.

But when it comes to building a bond between you and your lover, there are a few basic positions. Their variations can create the intimacy that is often missing in sexual situations.

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Eye contact, bodily closeness, and focusing on the energy of your partner are key ingredients. It establishes that tenderness necessary to take a sexual experience from mundane and emotionless to deep and even spiritual.

Here are three of the best positions that I suggest to build intimacy within your relationships.

Spooning

Spooning is a perfect position. It helps you transition from a late-night cuddle session into a hot and steamy sexual experience!

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Spooning puts the bodies of you and your partner into close contact. It creates a level of intimacy that only real lovers can enjoy and appreciate.

Be aware of how warm your partner feels and how their body rises and falls back to rest during breathing.

 Being aware in the moment will bring you into a new awareness of your partner.

Missionary

Any version of the missionary position is a great way to connect with your partner. It's great through eye contact and close bodily contact.

In this position, lovers have the ability to gaze into each other’s eyes. Then, exchange soft kisses. Stroke each other’s face and hair in loving embraces while connected with each other.

Keep eye contact while in motion to connect on a spiritual level. Speak words of adoration while in a locked gaze.

Lotus

In this position, both lovers sit with their legs folded. The female partner can be on top of the male partner.

This position is a traditional meditation position. It allows both partners to feel the breathing rhythms of the other.

It also helps perfectly align their chakras (energy centers) for a deeper energy connection.

Breathing and moving in sync in this position will create a cosmic connection of intimacy that is out of this world.

Visit the BlackDoctor.org Relationships center for more helpful articles and tips.

For more intimacy tips, click here.

By Tyomi Morgan | Published May 7, 2021

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