Who Gets The Shared Friends After A Breakup?
Breaking up is hard enough to do when it only concerns you and the soon to be ex. What complicates matters even more are the factors that we rarely think about once we make the decision to end it. Factors such as common places we hang out, visitation for the household pet (as petty as it may sound) and the one of the most important – shared friends.
As couples and relationships develop, friends are brought into the mix. You will want to know who your girlfriend or boyfriend is close to and hanging out with and vice versa. Their close friends might be in a relationships as well, so naturally you all become close, intertwined, and develop a kind of kinship and routine of hanging out together.
So what happens when you and your ex break it off? You all are so used to hanging out collectively, but with the breakup taking place obviously boundaries and lines need to be drawn to reduce the already undeniable awkwardness and just all out pain from the death of the relationship. So what can be done to sustain the breakup if you and your ex have the same circle of friends? You can bury your circle along with your ex and make all new friends. Or, you can follow these seven tips that might help you avoid that hassle.
1. You can have an agreement on which days you and your ex will hang out with your friends. Keep in mind the possibility to run into each other is real. Just exchange hi’s and bye’s when it does and keep it moving.
2. Attend large parties and events where the chances of running into your ex are minimal. Tuesday movie night with the clique is a no go. It’s an intimate setting and how likely is it that you WON’T lock eyes with your ex at some point (talk about awkward).