Although it's rare to have cervical cancer during your pregnancy, it affects between one and three women who are either pregnant or postpartum during the time of diagnosis. In fact, research shows that cervical cancer is the most commonly diagnosed gynecological cancer during pregnancy.
Cervical cancer can impact your pregnancy, future fertility, and postpartum care. Your doctor will help you determine your treatment options and your outlook, which is dependent on the type of cervical cancer you have, the size of your tumor, and how far along you are in your pregnancy. Fortunately, if you are already pregnant, the cancer rarely affects your fetus and is usually treatable when found early.
Navigating cervical cancer and pregnancy
If you are pregnant and were recently diagnosed with cancer, you are on a unique journey – one that involves not just the miracle of pregnancy, but also the challenge of cervical cancer. You're probably also feeling a wave of emotions. We're here to offer guidance, support, and a virtual shoulder to lean on. Let's explore some tips for navigating the challenges of cervical cancer during pregnancy.
1. Embrace Open Communication
From the moment you receive your diagnosis, it will be important to have open and honest conversations with your healthcare team. Your healthcare team should know anything you're feeling including your goals, pregnancy plans, concerns, and feelings. By sharing this information, your team can help guide you toward the best decisions for both you and your baby.
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2. Assemble Your Dream Team
Your healthcare providers are your champions and critical to the health of you and your unborn child. If you're a sports fan, think of it as assembling your dream team of experts who have experience with both cervical cancer and pregnancy. This team should be able to tailor your treatment plan to ensure the safety and well-being of you and your baby. If you aren't comfortable with your team or their recommendations, it is within your right to get a second opinion.
3. Prioritize Prenatal Care
Regular check-ups and prenatal tests are crucial for monitoring your health and your baby's development. Your healthcare team will adjust your care plan to accommodate both your cervical cancer treatment and the needs of your growing baby.
4. Explore Treatment Options
Cervical cancer treatments aren't a one-size-fits-all approach, especially if you are pregnant. With the help of your healthcare team, you'll be placed on a treatment plan that is uniquely designed to balance your cervical cancer treatment needs and your baby's safety. If you have concerns about how a potential treatment will impact your pregnancy, consult with your doctor.
5. Lean on Your Support System
Support can go a long way during this time. You don't have to face this journey alone. Your partner, family, and friends can be great sources of emotional support and would likely jump at the opportunity to be there for you in whatever way you need, whether it's for comfort, practical help, or a listening ear when you need it most.
6. Nurture Your Emotional Well-Being
Dealing with cervical cancer during pregnancy is emotionally demanding. Because of this, you may have moments of fear and uncertainty. That's completely normal, but it may help to seek counseling or join a support group with others who understand what you are going through.
7. Educate Yourself
Your doctor doesn't have to be the only one in the room with all the knowledge. Knowledge is empowerment. Arming yourself with information about cervical cancer, your treatment options, and the potential effects on your pregnancy will give you the confidence you need to make decisions and advocate for yourself.
8. Listen to Your Body
Your body has its way of speaking to you and you should never ignore it. Pay attention to how you're feeling physically and emotionally. Rest when you need to, and never hesitate to address any changes or concerns with your healthcare team.
9. Celebrate Small Victories
No milestone you reach is too small. Think of each milestone as a victory worth celebrating and a small step toward recovery. Whether it's completing a treatment session or reaching a certain point in your pregnancy, don't forget to take a moment to acknowledge your strength and resilience.
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10. Practice Self-Compassion
While we're on the topic of celebrating small victories, don't forget to show yourself some compassion. You're doing an incredible job navigating this difficult time in your life. Remember to give yourself permission to rest, take breaks, and engage in self-care activities that bring you joy and peace.
11. Cherish the Miracles
In the midst of challenges, never lose sight of the miracles happening within you. Your body is nurturing a new life while you're facing adversity. Embrace the beauty and strength of this duality.
12. Write Your Own Story
No matter what, you are the author of your journey. Getting diagnosed with cervical cancer during pregnancy might be an unexpected chapter, but it doesn't define your entire story. You still have the ability to create the best outcome for both you and your little one on the way.
Remember, you are not alone on this path. Your courage and resilience are inspiring, and with the right support, you can navigate these challenges with grace. Your story is one of strength, hope, and boundless love.