stable environment for your children. They’re the ones that matter, so keep doing your part.
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Parallel Parenting
When all else fails and the toxic behavior just won’t let up, please don’t go berserk. Try parallel parenting. Parallel parenting is the “stay out of my face” version of co-parenting, which unfortunately is sometimes necessary.
It’s a bit more extreme but it’s designed for high-conflict situations or when parents simply cannot work together. Parallel parenting encourages co-parents not to interfere with each other’s parenting time or decision-making unless there are concerns about the children’s safety or well-being.
Parallel parents may rely on neutral third parties, such as parenting coordinators, mediators, or therapists to relay messages, resolve disputes, and help enforce the parenting plan. This allows parents to disengage from each other while still fulfilling their responsibilities to their children.
Here are the facts: Raising kids in separate households is chaotic, especially if everyone hasn’t fully adjusted–but it’s not impossible. Seek professional help and support when needed and know that with dedication and the right strategies, you can make it work for the sake of your children’s future. And above all, remember who you do it for!