Why aren’t you married yet?
Marriage can often be a question brought up with any couple around the holidays, especially if you’re one of the last in the family to join the ranks of married life. Don’t let the pressure get to you. If you’re getting heat about when and why it hasn’t happened yet, try politely letting them know that you are living your life on your terms and not theirs. I’ve learned that if you are disinterested in discussing this topic, leaving less room for conversation around it is best.
Prepare your significant other for who they’ll meet in advance.
No one should be sent into battle unprepared! If you know your family is a host of characters – like Nosey Aunty, Nitpicking Grandmother, No Chill Cousin – give your date the heads up about everyone. There is nothing like being stuck in an awkward moment. At least if you give them a heads up, they can prepare for how they want to react. It will also make for funny inside jokes between the two of you all night!
At the end of the day, bringing your love home is only one checkpoint in the relationship. You can get through it! Just go with the flow.