“Teenage depression is becoming an epidemic. So many fans have written to me about self-harming and anorexia. Read the Twitters read the Tumblrs, see the messed up thoughts that go on in this generation.”
As for the solution, Haze suggests parents stop referring to stars like Justin Bieber as role models, when in fact, they have the power of influence. Parents have to be accountable.
“That’s why I hate when parents say Justin Bieber is a role model for their children. They get angry at him for behaving the way he does because their kids like him. But they ignore what their kids are actually doing. Parents: you control your child, you’re the person who enforces the rules in your house. You have to coach your child, steer them in the right direction and help them get stronger. Parents shouldn’t reprimand someone for having an illness.”
Meanwhile, Haze revealed that while she’s on the mend, every day is a battle. “I haven’t starved myself for years now, and although I have ups and downs, it’s not as bad as it was. I didn’t get better because I’m famous, I got better because I got help and started to learn how to be happy. I just want others to do the same.”
Fortunately for those struggling with any mental illness, there’s OpEds like Haze’s that are a friendly reminder that you’re not alone. Of course, if you or someone you know is considering suicide, let someone you trust know. Most likely, they won’t judge you or think less of you — they’ll just want to help.
*National Suicide Prevention Lifeline is available 24/7 at 1-800-273-8255.