this one isn’t for you.
For all my people who don’t mind it, going to a nail salon and specifically getting your feet done is a luxury.
What your feet look like is between you and the person working that day. Listening to calming music as a person cleans up your feet is surprisingly relaxing and not nearly as embarrassing or weird as getting a pedicure with a few friends.
Though the person working may judge how your feet look, it doesn’t matter. You’re getting a pedicure, you’re making sure your feet look as put together as possible, and you’re hanging out by yourself.
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Read a Book at a Restaurant (Level 4 Difficulty)
I got this idea from my own father who loves to eat at restaurants, specifically when they aren’t busy, and read a book while he waits and eats his food.
Everyone always has that one book they’ve been putting off reading. It was given as a gift or bought by your own self, the words “I should start reading again” gracing your mind. Well, now it’s time to actually read it.
And what better time than at a restaurant while you wait for your food?
Going to a restaurant can feel extremely awkward for most people since restaurants are usually occupied by two or more people. But reading a book makes the solo date more intentional and peaceful. It keeps you occupied as you wait for your meal, while also forcing you to make progress in the untouched book.
It may sound like a weird thing to do but I would definitely give it a try before writing it off. Who knows, it could be your new favorite activity.
Something More Specific to You (Level 5 Difficulty)
Have you ever wanted to skydive?
Have you ever wanted to go to a wildlife reserve?
Have you ever wanted to try a painting class?
Usually, when people answer these questions, they make a note that they wanna do it with someone else they love.
Well, I’m here to tell you that you can do this by yourself. You only have one life.
Making sure to do the activities that you’ve always wanted to do, whether by yourself or with another person is extremely important. It shows that you’re paying attention to your own needs and caring for yourself. Don’t be afraid to take that step into what you love alone.
Doing activities you’ve always wanted to do by yourself is a step to getting to know yourself and a step to becoming your own best friend. Don’t forget that we have to spend our whole lives with ourselves. Might as well make the most of it.