A happy, productive worker may owe some of their success to a healthy and fulfilling sex life, according to a fascinating study. The research, involving 159 married employees who were surveyed daily over two weeks, found that individuals who engaged in sex were in noticeably better moods at work the next day. This positive emotional boost translated into higher work engagement and job satisfaction.
Interestingly, the benefits were consistent for both men and women, lasting at least 24 hours.
“We make jokes about people having a ‘spring in their step,’ but it turns out this is actually a real phenomenon,” explains Keith Leavitt, an associate professor at Oregon State University’s College of Business and the study’s author. “Maintaining a healthy relationship that includes a healthy sex life helps employees stay happy and engaged in their work, which benefits both the employees and their organizations.”
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The Connection Between Sex and Mood
The study, published in the Journal of Management, highlights the physiological and emotional rewards of sex. Hormones released during sexual activity, such as dopamine and oxytocin, play crucial roles in feelings of reward, bonding, and attachment. These hormones act as natural mood elevators, promoting emotional well-being and resilience.
However, the study also found that work-related stress can negatively impact employees’ sex lives, underscoring the importance of creating boundaries between professional and personal life.
“This is a reminder that sex has social, emotional, and physiological benefits,” Leavitt adds. “It’s important to prioritize it as part of a healthy work-life balance. Just make time for it.”
The Importance of Work-Life Balance
The findings offer yet another compelling argument for maintaining a good work-life balance. In today’s hyperconnected world, the temptation to stay “plugged in” to work 24/7 is strong, but stepping away can have profound benefits.
“Technology offers a temptation to stay engaged with work, but it’s probably better to unplug if you can,” Leavitt advises. “Employers should encourage their employees to completely disengage from work after hours.”
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Tips for a Healthy Sex Life
To maintain a fulfilling sex life that supports both personal happiness and professional productivity, experts recommend the following strategies:
1. Schedule Time for Sex
Scheduling sex may not seem romantic, but it can be a practical way to prioritize intimacy amid busy schedules.
“Is there anything we value in our lives that we don’t schedule?” asks Emily Nagoski, PhD, a sex educator and author of the bestselling book Come as You Are: The Surprising New Science That Will Transform Your Sex Life.
Scheduling time for intimacy allows couples to reduce stressors, such as work-related pressures, that might otherwise interfere.
2. Avoid the ‘Chasing Dynamic’
When one partner frequently initiates intimacy and is met with rejection, it can create a negative cycle of frustration and misunderstanding.
“It’s rarely about attraction,” Nagoski explains. “Often, a partner says no because they’re stressed or overwhelmed, not because they’re uninterested in their partner as a person.”
Focusing on reducing stress and understanding each other’s needs can prevent this dynamic.
3. Take the Focus Off Sex
Shifting the focus to non-sexual forms of intimacy, such as cuddling or sharing quality time, can reduce pressure and enhance connection.
“This reinforces the bond and the sense of safety and affection within the relationship,” Nagoski says. “It also introduces physical affection that isn’t tied to initiating sex.”
4. Seek Professional Help if Needed
If intimacy issues persist, consulting a sex therapist can provide a safe space to navigate sensitive conversations and address underlying concerns.
“My first recommendation is always to find a sex therapist,” Nagoski advises. “We’re all tender and sensitive about sexuality, and having a neutral third party can help couples communicate without blame or hurt.”
Final Thoughts
This study sheds light on the significant role of a healthy sex life in fostering happiness and productivity at work. It also highlights the need to balance professional responsibilities with personal relationships. By prioritizing intimacy, employees can reap benefits that extend far beyond the bedroom, enhancing their emotional well-being and workplace performance.
As Leavitt puts it: “Happiness at home translates to happiness at work.”
