In order to address the issue, Ali suggests we diffuse the high level of “unrest in our community.” This of course requires parents and guardians to put aside the social stigma and be open, honest, and talk about the issue as well as seek professional help for their child if they are showcasing signs/symptoms that they may be a suicide risk.
“Be in tune to your child. Take note of changes in behavior. If a child is being very quiet or beginning to act – understand and know that these are behavioral issues – but also ask yourself ‘well what else could be going on,’” Ali continued. “Err on the side of caution and open the floor to talk – it’s okay to be sad. But you want to ensure they know they can come talk to you about anything.”
In addition, Ali says “practice compassion, understanding, and shy away from being overly critical of children,” as many have yet to develop the tools necessary to make rational decisions. “They just want to play with friends,” and may not “understand the implications of their decisions because of the lack of exposure, environment, or age.”
“Again, be aware and keep a dialogue with your children. If your child is saying things like ‘Did you want to have me?’ or ‘I wish I had never been born,’ drawing pictures that may indicate they are very sad, journaling or tweeting [if you allow your child to have social media] disturbing things and/or practicing isolation, these are all signs indicating a need for professional help.”
In spite of it all, Ali stresses that the most important thing one can do as a parent is to “check in and make changes where you deem necessary.”