eaten and slept before the appointment. Considering the unpredictability of the wait time, be sure to bring healthy snacks, kid-friendly games, crayons, and your child’s favorite stuffed animal (and steer them away from the germ-covered waiting-room toys).
You can keep them happy and interested by asking them about the framed artwork or fish in the aquarium.
Stay Close By If They Need You
Doctors and nurses are used to doing most of an examination on a child while holding them in a caregiver’s arms and are only somewhat uncomfortable doing so.
In the physician’s presence, a little child may feel especially defenseless while lying on the exam table. Let her feel secure and protected by sitting on your lap.
Keep Them Calm
Provide your child with a choice. Check his or her pulse in whatever arm or chair they prefer. In order for your youngster to watch a process, the doctor may do a trial run on their stuffed animal.
You may help your youngster cope with immunizations by stimulating their senses. Sucking on something tasty, listening to a favorite song, or looking at interesting objects (such as bubbles or a glittering wand) are all proven methods for diverting their attention.
Get your kid to take a few deep breaths with you. If you do this, they’ll feel at ease, their heart rate will slow, and you’ll have a good rapport.
Bring A Favorite Stuffed Animal Or Toy
The doctor may be able to do a “practice exam” on your child if they are calmed with a stuffed animal or doll instead of a pacifier or blanket. There is nothing to worry about since there is nothing scary that your child will witness.
If you have older siblings who aren’t afraid of doctors, ask if it’s okay if you go to the doctor for a checkup first. Having an older sibling go first may help kids overcome their fears and take the plunge.
Offer A Reward
Your reaction after each doctor’s visit might help shape your future appointments. Dr. Shifrin recommends sending patients home with reassurances like “You did so great, I can’t wait to tell Grandma or Daddy how brave you were” and a hug and kiss.
Also, you may take kids to a movie or a playground. If your child has trouble calming their nerves, they may miss out on the incentive and feel bad about it. Do not forget to highlight the bright side of events.
Trust Your Instincts
Finding a doctor who is a good fit both emotionally and intellectually is essential. Some children will be nervous about seeing any doctor, but if yours seems to be really worried, you should probably find out why and talk to other parents who use the same physician. If your child’s fears are justified, it may be time to look for a different pediatrician.