something you can hold in your hand and say, “He/She was thinking of me.”
*Side note: The thought behind the gift is more important than the money spent.
4. Quality time: Time well spent is the most important.
This language is all about giving the other person your undivided attention. No, that does not mean Netflix and chill. When you eat up time binge-watching “The Walking Dead”, HBO has your attention, not your loved one.
Make ample use of your time by putting your devices to the side and/or turning off the television. If your partner’s primary love language is a little QT, he/she simply wants you.
5. Physical touch: For some, nothing speaks more deeply than appropriate touch.
To this individual, physical touch is the primary way they feel emotionally filled. Without it, they may feel unloved. Whether it be holding hands, kissing, embracing, or sexual intimacy, communicating emotion by way of implicit loving touches is the only way to make them feel secure in their relationship.
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