5 Myths About Down Syndrome EVERY Black Mother Should Know

Receiving a diagnosis of Down syndrome for your child can be life-changing.

A million questions swirl about your mind. How will things be different? What challenges will come? Will my child be able to grow into a happy, healthy, independent adult? What resources do I need? Where do I turn? Who do I trust?

At times, it can all be overwhelming.

And that’s okay. As the Black mother of a child with Down syndrome, you’re not expected to know everything. This is going to be a learning process, a journey for both you and your child. There will be hiccups, there will be struggles and valleys. But there will also be incredible moments, triumphs, and victories you never could’ve imagined.

First, however, it’s good to learn the basics. With so much information out there, it can be easy to get misled. In fact, many misconceptions about Down syndrome exist, making the whole process sometimes much harder.

So let’s go through them. Here are five common myths about Down syndrome that every Black mother should know.

Myth 1: Down Syndrome Is Curable

Children with Down syndrome face unique difficulties that other children do not. Sometimes, these challenges can make you wonder… Is there a way to ‘cure’ this? Is there a way to relieve my child of this condition?

While there are many ways to help your child overcome barriers and reach new heights, Down syndrome itself cannot be cured. After all, it is not an illness, it is a genetic condition.

But here’s the good news! Children with Down syndrome can often be rays of light in a dark, bleak world. When you’re feeling down, you’ll be surprised how much your little one can lift you up.

As for helping your child, there are numerous therapies and interventions you can access. Whether it’s speech therapy, occupational therapy, or educational assistance, the resources are all out there – and there are many professionals happy to help!

Myth 2: Down Syndrome Is Severe

Like with any condition, there’s a spectrum. Some children with the condition may grow up to be completely independent adults, whereas others may require assistance for the rest of their lives.

You may be surprised just how far your child can go, whether it’s with meaningful relationships, educational opportunities, or even full-fledged careers. Whatever you do, don’t let predictions of your child’s future get you down.

Celebrate the small victories, take it step by step, and don’t be discouraged. Although children with Down syndrome can sometimes have severe limitations, they also present with diverse abilities and talents. As the saying goes, they come in many shapes and sizes.

And each one is unique!

Myth 3: All People with Down Syndrome Look the Same

Yes, certain features are indeed linked to Down syndrome. Oftentimes, you may notice a certain head shape, typically a flat face, and almond-shaped eyes. However, these physical distinctions will always vary across individuals.

Factors such as race, size, body shape, and appearance all impact these differences.

So celebrate them! Take photos of your loved one. Highlight their personality with videos and funny photos. Create a scrapbook as they grow older to chart how they’ve matured and changed. Take joy in noting the physical journey as your child goes through life.

You’ll be amazed at how things have developed.

Myth 4: Down Syndrome Is Caused by Lifestyle

Many people have attributed Down syndrome diagnosis to lifestyle decisions, like what you eat or how prenatal care turns out. In reality, Down syndrome is tied to genetics and happens randomly when reproductive cells go through atypical changes. Although the age of the mother at birth may play a small role, Down syndrome does not result directly from lifestyle.

If you want to learn more about related factors, look into reputable organizations.

The National Down Syndrome Society and the National Down Syndrome Congress are invaluable resources.

Myth 5: People with Down Syndrome Can’t Be Independent

Last but not least is the belief that children with Down syndrome cannot become independent as they grow and mature. Sure, some children will need support for their entire lives, but independence is how you define it. What your child used to need help with may change. As your little one gets older, new stages of life occur, and new milestones are passed.

Whether your child grows up completely independent, driving and working a 9 to 5 with a meaningful relationship, or is dependent on others for most things, never underestimate!

With continued social support, life skill training, and other vocational and non-vocational resources, your child can become the best version of themselves possible.

And what more could a proud parent want?