a good time while also dropping knowledge on them reminds me of my best friend, and his entrepreneurial spirit reminds me of so many Black men that I know including my father. When Black men, like Nipsey Hussle, come to the forefront of our communities they bring with them our hopes and dreams. They tell our stories for us and allow our collective voices to be amplified in a way that we felt couldn’t be done before it was.
So many around me and even I have been asking one question over and over again: Why do we cry for strangers? The answer is because they’re not. Nipsey Hussle, Tupac, and many others are not strangers. They are our brothers, our loves, and our best friends. When we see them win we know they’re moving the culture forward, they carry us with them. When we see them win we get excited because we know it’s possible for ourselves and those around us. When we see them win we mentally take notes because as they make the moves the blueprint is being given to us on a silver platter that they reminded us we deserved to eat from.
Angelique Smith, the mother of Nipsey Hussle, said that we are a traumatized people. In my opinion, some of that trauma comes from the frequent rise and fall of those in our communities at the hands of our community. Seeing prominent Black men ruthlessly taken away from us makes us want to shield the Black men we have, protect them from the world, and go silent so as not to draw any attention on those men that we wish to keep around longer for ourselves. She also talked about how we are royal, regal. It was then that I realized we can’t hide their light even if we wanted to.
It’s a tough dance to do, but the music is perfect and we all, as Black people, have great rhythm. Don’t feel ashamed for being affected by a man you’ve never met–that was the point. If after all of the work that Nipsey Hussle had done we weren’t affected and effected, then what was the point? Feel all of your emotions and take care of you the best way you can. This work is bigger than us all and now it’s OUR turn. So, once you’re ready and have wiped your eyes, The Marathon Continues.
<3 Bry
Bryana Holcomb is the Editor of BlackDoctor.org and graduate of the University of Illinois at Urbana Champaign. She has a Bachelor of Arts in Gender and Women’s Studies, an MBA in Management Strategy, and Life Coaching and Nutrition certifications. Connect with Bryana on Instagram, @BryDelicia.