like growing up.
Questions like these will break that awkward silence and nervousness.
Be respectful.
This should go without saying but be respectful across the board.
This means open doors, say ‘yes ma’am’, ‘no sir’, look them in the eye, and come humbly.
Truly be yourself.
Last but certainly not least, be yourself and show the best assets of your personality that day.
Relax, enjoy yourself and take in the wonderful personalities you will come across!
Find common ground
Discover shared interests or experiences that can help you connect with your partner’s parents. This can be a great way to establish rapport.
Listen actively
Pay attention to what they are saying, and respond thoughtfully. This shows that you are engaged in the conversation and value their thoughts.
Express appreciation
Thank them for having you over and let them know you enjoyed spending time with them. Gratitude goes a long way in leaving a positive impression.
Follow up
Send a thank-you note or a message expressing your gratitude for the invitation and reiterating that you enjoyed meeting them. This shows that you are thoughtful and considerate.
Tia Muhammad, BS, is an award-winning freelance content & media creative, copywriter, blogger, digital designer, and marketing consultant. She owns the boutique content and digital media company, jackieGLDN|studio.