Singer, actor and reality TV star Tamar Braxton said Tuesday that she ‘almost died’ in a weekend accident that she doesn’t remember.
“I was found in a pool of blood from my friend with a face injury,” Braxton wrote in an Instagram post. “I fractured my nose, lost some teeth and mobility.” She added, “I don’t even know what happened to me.”
Braxton, 48, earlier in the day had posted “Thank you God for waking me up today,” in an Instagram story.
The post said she was getting calls after and was struggling to talk so she shared what had happened to her.
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“I struggled to write this but everyone keeps calling me and asking and honestly, I can’t even really talk anymore I’m so weak. I was found in a pool of blood with a friend with a face injury. As the day goes by the worse it is. I fractured my nose, lost some teeth and mobility. The way I look at life now is totally different. As my health is on the mend my mental journey begins… pray for me for real. I don’t even know what happened to me.”
Then she went on to quote from the Bible saying that she’s a “Proverbs 31 Woman.”
Proverbs 31 is the last chapter in the Book of Proverbs and is famous for describing the characteristics of a virtuous woman, often referred to as the “Proverbs 31 woman”. The chapter is presented as the advice of King Lemuel’s mother. She teaches him about both righteous leadership and the qualities of a capable and praiseworthy woman. The chapter highlights qualities like hard work, wisdom, fear of the Lord, and kindness to others.
Here are some key takeaways from what a “Proverbs 31 Woman” is:
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The Virtuous Woman:
The majority of the chapter focuses on describing the admirable qualities of a “Proverbs 31 woman,” often interpreted as an ideal wife and woman.
Attributes of the Proverbs 31 Woman:
This woman is portrayed as industrious, resourceful, wise, and compassionate. She is a capable manager of her household, a shrewd businesswoman, and a source of strength and encouragement for her family.
Emphasis on Character over Appearance:
Proverbs 31:30 explicitly states that “Charm is deceptive, and beauty is fleeting,” emphasizing that true worth comes from fearing the Lord and displaying good character.
Public Praise for Her Works:
The chapter concludes by highlighting how the virtuous woman is praised for her deeds and accomplishments, both within her family and in the broader community.
Tamar’s Past Medical & Mental Issues
Back in 2020, Braxton revealed in a lengthy statement posted on her Instagram that she had attempted suicide after suffering “pain” for the past 11 years while working in the entertainment industry as a reality star.
A few bright spots in the letter to her fans was that Tamar explained how she’s on a “path to healing” following her recent hospitalization after she was found unresponsive in a hotel room earlier this month.
“First and foremost, thank you,” Braxton began, addressing her fans. “Thank you to each and every individual who has prayed for me, thought of me, sent me their love and has showered me with their support. In this present moment, it is my only responsibility to be real with myself and to be real with the ones who truly love me and care for my healing. I have without fail, shared with you my brightest days, and I know that sharing with you what has been my darkest will be the light for any man or woman who is feeling the same defeat I felt just only a week ago.”
Tamar went on to talk about how she got her and what her breaking point was.
“Over the past 11 years, there were promises made to protect and portray my story, with the authenticity and honesty I gave. I was betrayed, taken advantage of, overworked, and underpaid. I wrote a letter over 2 months ago asking to be freed from what I believed was excessive and unfair. I explained in personal detail the demise I was experiencing. My cry for help went totally ignored. However, the demands persisted. It was my spirit and my soul that was tainted the most. There are a few things I count on most to be, a good mother, a good daughter, a good partner, a good sister, and a good person. Who I was, begun to mean little to nothing, because it would only be how I was portrayed on television that would matter. It was witnessing the slow death of the woman I became, which discouraged my will to fight. I felt like I was no longer living, I was existing for the purpose of a corporations gain and ratings, and that killed me.”
This was all evidenced by when Braxton renamed her twitter profile to say “Slave Tamar Braxton” during that time period.
What Does Recovery Look Like for Tamar
A fractured nose may cause a septal hematoma. A septal hematoma is blood pooling in your septum. Your septum is the cartilage and bone that separates your nostrils. A septal hematoma can lead to serious issues like:
A hole (perforation) in your septum
Saddle nose, which happens if the bridge of your nose collapses
Tissue in your nose starting to die (necrosis)
When it comes to how Tamar will recover, she will most likely go down this road:
Manual Realignment (Reduction):
If the bones are displaced, a doctor may be able to manually realign them (closed reduction) within a short timeframe (usually within 2 weeks).
This procedure often involves local anesthesia and may be followed by nasal packing and/or a splint.
Surgery:
In more complex cases, surgery (rhinoplasty or septoplasty) may be necessary to repair the fracture and improve breathing or appearance.
Pain Management:
Over-the-counter pain relievers like ibuprofen, naproxen, or acetaminophen can help manage pain and swelling.
Important: Consult with a healthcare provider before using these medications, especially if you have underlying health conditions.
