In just a matter of weeks, I’ll load up my car and trek it cross country from VA to AZ with my two minions in tow to visit family for the holidays.
While in the back of my mind I’m dreading a rotation of Taylor Swift, Katy Perry and Adele’s “25,” on the flip side, having completed a handful of these long distance trips over the years I’ve compiled a list of ways to survive hitting the highway (for long periods of time) with little ones.
Among those things is a list of must-have “carry-ons” consisting of…
1. Backpack/suitcase –Fill your child's bag(s) to the brim with their favorite picks: books, coloring supplies, stickers, a deck of cards, a special treat (or two), and what I call a “piece of home” such as a stuffed animal and a wild card – something they just can’t live without.
2. Blankets/pillows –There’s nothing more uncomfortable than sleeping in a car. Multiply that by the number of children for about 10 hours a day and you’ve created the perfect environment for a sleep-deprived meltdown.
For kids bound to a car seat, try a soft, plush travel neck rest, sure to keep your babe's head from hanging low. Trust me, you don’t want to experience the tantrum accompanied by a crick in the neck!
For older kids, allow your pre-teen to grab their go-to pillow or blanket straight off the bed. On the plus side, it’s one less thing to pack.
3. A tablet –While I admit I use to be against small kids having access to electronics, when you’re trapped in a car for three days, you begin to make exceptions.
Since many DVD/Blu-rays have a download option, have your kids select up to five of their favorite films (check your personal device storage limits). Keep them on deck and ready to go for hours when your kids may be eating or ready to slumber. This will keep them entertained, in good spirits and hopefully prevent backseat brawls so you can keep your eyes on the wheel.
Interactive games like Kids Doodle – Color & Draw, Peekaboo Sesame Street ($2.99), iStory Books and How to Make Paper Airplanes are great free (and affordable) ways to keep them entertained.
4. Goodie bags –Pack as many hearty, healthy snacks as possible. This will cut down on the time you’ll have to stop for food along the way. Drive thru’s both eat up precious time and rack up extra, unexpected costs. Of course, should you see an unusual ice cream spot or candy shop, feel free to stop and give your children a sweet treat. After all, what’s a road trip without a little something special?
5. A playlist –My daughters and I LOVE to sing – at the top of our lungs – and dance. While we may look cray cruising down the highway – kids' hands awkwardly flailing in the air and all - nothing sets the mood for a one-of-a-kind memory like a terrific tune.
Allow your kids to select some of their favorite songs, ensuring you have a handful of “turn -up tracks” for when you're manning the wheel as they sleep.
While this list is just a starting point, hopefully it can assist in creating a tantrum-free, fun filled experience. Happy holidays!