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10 Things You Should Reconsider Saying To Your Kids

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There are many things you should avoid saying to your child, for their and your sakes. These sentences may be harmful. 

“Great Job.”

According to Parents expert Jenn Berman, Psy.D., author of The A to Z Guide to Raising Happy, Confident Kids, saying “Good girl” or “Way to go” every time your kid learns a task makes them rely on your encouragement rather than their own drive.

Be particular while giving praise. Instead, say, “Great game,” or “Nice assist.” 

“Practice Makes Perfect.”

Your child’s talents will improve with practice. This saying might increase his pressure to win or succeed.

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It communicates the idea that if you make errors, you don’t practice hard enough. Encourage your youngster to work hard because he’ll improve and feel proud.

“You’re Okay.”

When your kid scratches their knee and cries, you may want to reassure them. Saying they’re okay may make them feel worse.

Your child is weeping because they’re sick. Help them understand and manage their emotions, don’t disregard them.

Hug your youngster and remark, “That was a terrifying fall.” Ask whether they want a bandage, kiss, or both.

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“Hurry Up!”

Rushing your children increases stress. Your child lingers over breakfast, insists on tying their own shoes (even if they can’t), and is late for school… again. Say, “Let’s rush” instead. This shows that you’re teammates.

“I’m On a Diet.”

Dieting? Don’t tell anyone else about it. Your child may develop a negative view of their body if they often see you

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