Born in 1968 in Birmingham, comedian Rickey Smiley's father was shot to death when he was six years old. His mother depended on extended family to help raise Smiley, who grew up primarily in the care of his grandparents. It was his grandmother who Smiley had the deepest connection. She took him to church, took him to funerals, raised him in the church and it was that much of that love that helped shape who he is today.
Smiley’s come a long way since singing in the church choir. His Atlanta-based radio show, The Rickey Smiley Morning Show, is now in 70 markets, reaching over 10 million listeners every morning. On top of that, FOX syndicated show Dish Nation, where he and his crew alternate with other radio personalities, give their nightly spin on the pop culture headlines, hit number one in New York.
Smiley's characters always get the laughs at his comedy shows. Fan favorites include Lil' Daryl, Church Announcements with Sister Bernice Jenkins, where he incorporates his hilarious church background, and of course his popular prank calls. Although Smiley, also an accomplished pianist and other instrumentalists, first realized he was funny around seventh grade, it wasn’t until his senior year at Alabama State University in Montgomery, where he majored in music, that he turned to comedy.
Despite enormous success, in his book, "Stand by Your Truth, then Run for Your Life" he calls himself a self-proclaimed “good ole country boy,” life is all about family. After all, it was his grandmother and other extended family who practically raised him. And when his grandmother passed away, it was up to Rickey to keep the family together, even though at times it was rough.
“I sit in my church and on a lot of Saturdays, I sat there and watched a lot of my church members bury their loved ones and you know, you just have to be there for people because it’s the toughest thing for all of us to go through,” he vented in 2013.
Getting personal, the single dad said, “It’s a struggle for me. When I lost my grandmother, I felt like I lost my best friend. I felt like my world was caving in and my life ain’t been the same.”
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“We are born to die and death is part of the process to go to the next level, but it’s so tough,” he said. "You have to be there for other people. Get out of yourself, and be there for someone else because someone was there for you. We've got to be there for other people. That's what it's all about."
When describing what his home life is about, Rickey keeps it simple and plain and tells it like it is just like his Grandmother would have.
“It’s a real simple life. We ain’t balling out and popping Champagne!” FLossing may not be a...
... priority, but his kids certainly are. In addition to his two biological children—Brandon, 26 and Malik, 15—the divorced father has raised his daughter D’Essence, 18, since she was 2 years old and he has pitched in to parent the kids of his relatives, fraternity brother and many others in need.
“I have been helping to feed kids since I was 15 years old,” he explains. “[There] were kids in the community, their parents were on drugs. I started out boiling hot dogs and making sandwiches for kids that didn’t have anything to eat.” He wishes for his generosity and fatherhood, not wealth and fame, to be his ultimate legacy.
“I enjoy being the best father I can be and being an awesome father to the fatherless. My dad was murdered and taken away from me when I was 7 so I know what it’s like growing up without a dad, even though I had an awesome granddad and uncles. But to be able to fill that void for somebody else is just incredible. I would actually pay money to do it.”
